How to Plan an Anniversary Party: What to Buy, Book

Planning an anniversary party should feel like honoring a love story—not managing a crisis. Start by deciding what matters most to the couple, then work down a simple party timeline that spells out what to buy versus what to book. Lock the big pieces early (venue, entertainment, photographer), use clear RSVP systems, and plan for comfort: stroller space, quiet corners, and accessible routes. As a rule of thumb, set your food and drink budget first so other choices don’t balloon later, a tip echoed by event guides that emphasize early guardrails to prevent scope creep (see the practical advice in Shutterfly’s anniversary planning guide) Shutterfly’s planning basics. Below, you’ll find A Day in Mollywood’s parent-forward, safety-first roadmap—complete with a timeline, definitions, and buy-vs-book checklists—to make your celebration meaningful and low-stress.

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Sometimes we get it into our heads that a date night has to be expensive dinners and romantic escapades. When in reality those just can’t happen very often – especially when you’re parents!

Something like that might stretch your budget, having to pay for a night out not to mention having to pay for a babysitter.

Our family has some important news to share with you . . .

Yep, that’s right! Baby #3 is on the way!

I cannot tell you how excited the boys are to have a new brother or sister!

Eight years ago today, in this very spot, Naaman got down on one knee and promised to love me forever. And now, eight years later, we stand in this spot and announce the final addition to our family. Never in my wildest dreams could I have imagined this life for us. But I’m so glad it’s our reality.

I would have posted this sooner. Then I realized it took me twenty minutes to record all my answers. And since NOBODY wants to watch a 20 minute vlog I knew I would have to figure out how to edit a video.

I had no earthly idea how to do it. But I kinda sorta figured it out last night (yay for learning a new skill!). I made this in iMovie and although it’s a bit choppy it will have to do for now. You know, until I’m winning the Oscar equivalent for vlogging.

I had my first ultrasound yesterday morning. I was very nervous but our little bean popped up very quickly to say hello : ) We could instantly see the little heartbeat flickering and then the technician turned on the sound so we could hear it. I immediately started bawling. I cried, Naaman cried, and then we giggled like little kids. Oh man, it was just the most amazing thing I’ve ever seen and heard.

Well, this crazy weekend is over. I coordinated my Cousin Tim’s wedding and I can proudly say, it went off without a hitch. I am very happy that Tim found someone who will always be there for him. Years ago, Tim lost his sight and I know it has been quite a struggle for him and his family. I am glad that he persevered and realized that he too is worthy of love. Everyone is, I think.

I feel compelled to post this information because it has been on my mind for the past couple of days. I heard about Jennifer Ireland’s story on Mix 93.3 and immediately went to her blog to read about what she and her family are going through. I don’t think I was prepared for what I was about to read. It is a beautiful story of true love, sorrow and letting go of the ones that you love. I believe I may have gone to high school with Jennifer because she looks so familiar to me and they reference my hometown a lot but I’m not sure. I just can’t get their story off of my mind . . . so if you have an hour to sift through some of the most beautiful posts I have ever read, I highly recommend you do. It is truly a great testament to the vows Naaman and I just took, “In sickness and in health.”